Balance.
It’s tricky finding balance, in most everything. In the context of relationships, attraction is balancing act—an incredibly sophisticated one. Social dynamics and circumstantial cues set up serendipitous situations that stick with us. People learn from successful and failed human interactions and model their behavior accordingly. Our aim is to make all subsequent interactions smoother and more organic.
So practice. Go out. Smile. Tell someone your name. You have confidence inside. Use it and people will admire and love you.
Why? Because one of the most difficult things in life to learn is to know what you want, and learning how to ask for it.